The Tiny Habit Swap That’s Saving My Sanity
Let me be honest with you.
I love a good series. The drama, the accents, the escape — everything.
But somewhere between “just one more episode” and “chai, it’s 1:47am,” I realised something was off.
I wasn’t resting. I was just numbing.
So one day, I said, “Girl, let’s try something different.”
(Not drastic, I didn’t delete my Movie Box app o. I just adjusted.)
Instead of letting movies and Instagram soak up my whole evening, I replaced a small part of that time with things that actually filled me:
- A 10-minute walk with my thoughts (and greeting my neighbours left and right)
- Journaling whatever was on my mind — even if it was “I’m tired abeg”
- Stretching (yes, the Yoruba aunty in me was shocked too)
- Writing for fun, no pressure… (currently writing a romance novel. anticipate!)
- Calling that one friend who always lifts my mood
Some things flopped. Others stuck. But here’s the truth:
This simple habit swap helped me feel human again.

Less frazzled. More present. More me.
And that’s the vibe I want for every Nigerian girl trying to juggle life, career, family, ice-cream and shawarma cravings, and maybe a little healing.
It’s not about becoming a productivity queen overnight.
It’s about finding your rhythm.
Replace a little screen time with something soulful.
Start small. Adjust. Repeat.
Soon, you’ll start going to bed with a calm mind and a smiling heart, and maybe even wake up without cursing your alarm.
So if you’re feeling overwhelmed lately, try a tiny swap.
Not because the world said so, but because you deserve ease too.
And hey, if you try it — DM me. We’ll gist.



Yesssss!
I deserve ease. Will put this consideration because I deserve it. Thank you Norma.
You are welcome. Let me know how it works out for you.